A white acquaintance noticed me eating food with chopsticks. I rarely use chopsticks at home, but I thought it would make sense to use them to eat an Asian tofu dish. Their reaction was, "oh my god, you're SO Asian." I was surprised based on a couple factors. First, this person openly considered themselves an intersectional feminist, so I would expect this type of comment to be past them. Second, I have received comments my whole life from other Asians for not being Asian enough or being "white-washed," so if it wasn't enough that I felt like I didn't belong with other Asians, I now knew that I couldn't fit in with white people either.