There have been way, way too many times I've overheard other people describing their sexual pursuit of someone "exotic" or "interesting." Some examples of things I've heard include, "Yeah, I like Asian pussy," as well as, "I've always wanted to f*ck a black guy." What people don't realize is how marginalizing, orientalizing, and otherizing this is. POC are consistently described as a pursuit—an object to be won, and a challenge to be undertaken, rather than see as actual humans. They're objectified, and many times the people doing the objectifying see themselves as good and moral, because hey, how can you be racist if you want to have sex with a POC?