My friend and I were singing along to a rap song in the car. I knew the song had the N word in it, so I made sure to stop singing during that part - as a nonblack POC, it’s not my place to sing along. But my friend (also a nonblack POC) sang right along. Shocked, I immediately stopped the music and asked him why he had done that. He responded “Why does it matter? It’s just a song”. I was taken aback by this level of ignorance.